Paschal & Maryanne

By 1 September 2026. That's when we give the caterer our final numbers, so a reply before then is a real kindness. RSVP here.

Yes — right up to 1 September. Go back to the RSVP page, enter your code again, and your previous answers will be there to edit.

It happens. Reply to the message we sent you, or email us, and we'll send it straight back over. Please don't use someone else's — the code is what tells us which seats are yours.

Your invitation names everyone we've saved a seat for, and the RSVP page will show you exactly who that is. If it includes a plus-one, there'll be a space for you to give us their name. We've had to keep numbers tight, so we can't add seats beyond that — we hope you understand.

We love your little ones. If your invitation includes them by name, please do bring them — there's a children's meal on the RSVP form. If it doesn't, we've kept that celebration adults-only, and we'd be glad to help you find a sitter for the evening.

Formal — black-tie optional. Suits, tuxedos, floor-length and formal midi dresses are all at home here. Our colours are evergreen, gold and warm neutrals; you're welcome to echo them, but never obliged. We'd gently ask you to leave white and ivory to the bride. Shoulders covered in church is appreciated, and the evening turns cool, so bring a wrap or jacket.

The exact addresses are with the rest of the details — enter your invitation code and you'll see both, with maps and parking. If a drive is involved between them, we'll say so clearly there.

Please be seated by 11:30 AM Central. The Mass begins at noon and the doors close as the procession starts, so anyone arriving late will need to wait for a break to be seated.

Come exactly as you are; there's nothing to prepare. A Nuptial Mass usually lasts about an hour to an hour and a quarter. You'll see people sit, stand and kneel — join in or stay seated, whichever you prefer, and nobody will mind. At Communion you're warmly welcome to come forward for a blessing with your arms crossed over your chest, or simply stay in your pew.

Both the Mass and the reception are indoors, so the Kansas weather can do as it likes. Photographs may take us outside briefly if it's fine.

During the Mass, please put your phone away and simply be with us — our photographer has it covered, and a raised phone in the aisle ends up in every shot. From the reception onwards, please take all the photographs you like.

Yes, and we'd love to see them — after the ceremony, please. We'd only ask that you don't post pictures of the bride before she walks down the aisle.

We're hoping to stream the Mass for family who can't travel. It isn't confirmed yet — as soon as it is, the link will appear here and we'll send it round.

Parking, step-free access and accessible seating are all covered in the invited-guests section. If you need anything specific — a reserved seat near the front, a wheelchair space, help getting from the car — just tell us on your RSVP or message us, and we'll arrange it.

We won't be hosting a bar, but our reception venue has one where you're welcome to buy drinks, so do bring a card if you'd like one. If you plan to drink, please arrange a safe way back to your hotel.

There is, and we can't wait. Paschal's family is Igbo and Maryanne's is Edo, so alongside the Catholic Mass you'll find touches of both through the celebration — music, colour and the odd moment that will make sense to some guests and delight the rest. No preparation needed: follow the room, and someone will happily explain.

There's a wedding-day phone number in the invited-guests section — please use that rather than calling us. If you're lost, delayed or need anything at all, that's the number that will actually be answered.